Thursday, January 30, 2025

Mr. Right vs. Mr. Right Now: A Tale as Bold as Time

After a hiatus, the book club is back!  So it's time to review my most recent pick, namely Rebecca Serle's Expiration Dates.

Daphne Bell has been given a gift -- or a curse, depending how you look at it.  The universe sends her pieces of paper saying the amount of time she'll spend with each man she dates.  Daphne doesn't know how or why these relationships end, only that they will.

But Daphne isn't just a thirtysomething looking for love.  Because this is Serle, who delivered a doozy of a gotcha in One Italian Summer.  In Expiration Dates, she does it again, and I didn't even see it coming.  But once I processed the say what? of it all, I appreciated how it deepened the story.

I don't think I can say more without being a spoiler.  I will say that Serle's writing is beautiful, lending magic to an already enchanted premise. 

Expiration Dates reminds us that time is as infinite as it is finite -- but ultimately what we make of it.

Tuesday, January 28, 2025

Peppered With Leopard and Preaching Priestly (Not Jason)

Skirt: Wild Fable, Target; Sunglasses: So, Kohl's

Bag: Mix No. 6, DSW


Top: Madden Girl, Kohl's

Boots: Madden Girl, Kohl's

Coat: POPSUGAR, Kohl's

 Boots: Olivia Miller, Kohl's

Top: Madden Girl, Macy's

Skirt: Almost Famous, Kohl's

Bag: Nine West, Kohl's

Top: Madden Girl, Macy's; Necklace: Betsey Johnson, Macy's

Shoes: Mix No. 6, DSW; Socks: Amazon

Sunglasses: Zulily


Skirt: Vanilla Star, Macy's

Hair claw: Wild Fable, Target

Bag: Current Mood, Dolls Kill

Top: Madden Girl, Kohl's

Loafers: Betsey Johnson, Macy's; Tights: Isadora, Zulily

They say that leopards never change their spots.  I don't know about that, but I tried to change the way I wore leopard in these '90s-meets-Y2K-esque outfits.  Which means shirts and skirts and, in one case, booties.  

Then again, they also say that leopard's making a comeback.  Which makes me wonder, when did it go?  Everyone knows that leopard's a neutral.  Cue "Florals?  For spring? Groundbreaking." 

Per the priestess, that's all.

Tuesday, January 21, 2025

Second Look Book: The Keyes to Closure

Marian Keyes is one of my favorite authors.  Which is odd because her books don't dwell in the cocoon of comfort in which I usually burrow.  No, her novels, despite being rife with Jo Malone candles and witty wisecracks, are steeped in real life and all its complex emotions.  Yet however paradoxically, there is a kind of comfort in that.  So when I'd heard that Keyes had written a follow-up to Rachel's Holiday, namely Again, Rachel, I was all in.  

Rachel is one of the five beloved Walsh sisters, a quintet of flawed, take-no-prisoners, hilarious women.  Each has her own book -- and her own demons.  So, in Rachel's Holiday, middle sister Rachel isn't jetting off to Paris or Ibiza.  She's going to rehab.  Her stint at Dublin's Cloisters is as harrowing and heartbreaking as you'd imagine, albeit tempered by Keyes's signature snark.  Now, twenty years later, Keyes revisits Rachel's story in Again, Rachel.  A counselor at the Cloisters, Rachel seems to have it all figured out.  But twenty years is a long time, and a lot has happened.  

A master storyteller, Keyes doesn't fill us in all at once, instead feeding us flashbacks filtered through the voice of her scrappy and sympathetic but undeniably unreliable narrator.  In between, Rachel navigates the present day, which entails heart-to-hearts with her sponsor, Nola.  Whenever Rachel is stymied by one of life's questions, Nola tells her to "golden key" it.  In other words, put it aside until the universe presents an answer.  And although this isn't what Rachel wants to hear, it ends up being what she needs. 

Again, Rachel is hard to put down but also hard to read, on account of all the rawness and realness.  The result, however, is a sequel that's more powerful than the original.  Maybe I feel that way because Rachel's older or because I'm older.  But there's no escaping that Again, Rachel is layered with, well, everything.  It's one of the saddest books I've ever read, but also one of the best.  Because it helps you hope while appreciating what you've got, however painful or imperfect.  

And as Nola would undoubtedly say, that's the golden key.

Thursday, January 16, 2025

Oodles of Caboodles and Others



Bag: A New Day, Target


The magic of Macy's (their tagline at one point!).

Hair claws: Wild Fable, Target

The cover of my new (albeit unopened) sketchbook.

Shoes: Madden Girl, Kohl's; Tights: Amazon

Polka dot cami: Wet Seal; Zebra shrug: Bar III, Macy's; Skirt: Tinseltown, Macy's

Coat: Madden Girl, Kohl's; Skirt: Wild Fable: Target

A local taco place I haven't tried yet.


Lace top: Xhilaration, Target


Shoes: Unlisted by Kenneth Cole, Marshalls

Barrettes: Wild Fable, Target




Skort: So, Kohl's

A Caboodle is always a thoughtful gift.  Despite the recent The Sex Lives of College Girls episode where Whitney rejects the peace offering of one from Kimberly (Pauline Chalamet, and yes, she's Timothée's sister!) as an apology for kissing her ex.  Kimberly is the geek of the friend group, so the Caboodle is meant to be cringe.  But unlike Whitney, I was stoked to receive not one, not two, but three Caboodles for my birthday!  The sky blue one is almost exactly like the first Caboodle I ever got, which was for Christmas when I was eight.  I remember my (boy) cousin scoffing that it looked like a tackle box.  As if!    

In another nod to '80s/'90s nostalgia, I included this shot of the Memphis print headbands, soda-flavored Lipsmackers, and Let's Go to the Mall book I got for Christmas.  The book is an " '80s seek and find."  So, a Where's Waldo of Walkmans and wayfarers.  I can't wait to get into it!    

You know what else is very '80s/'90s?  Show-and-telling my gifts.  

Which is just the kind of uncool thing that Kimberly might do.  

Monday, January 13, 2025

A Play on Nerds: Monsters are Murder

Whenever I settle in with one of Laura Levine's Jaine Austen mysteries, I know I'm in for the Godiva of treats.  Just like Jaine before downing a pint of Chunky Monkey or her cat Prozac poised to inhale her Minced Mackerel Guts.  So when I opened Death by Smoothie, I was set for a feast.

Jaine's latest gig is as a script doctor for computer geek lovers-turned-lottery winners.  They're over the moon to be producing a play of their favorite sitcom, the all-but-forgotten I Married a Zombie.  Yet the duo's dreams are dashed when their talentless leading lady makes an enemy of everyone on set -- and threatens their romance.  So it's no surprise when someone poisons her green smoothie, recasting the undead diva as dead.

Jaine thought she had her hands full resuscitating the script.  But things get really dicey when her neighbor Lance enlists her to find out whodunit.  His actor boyfriend is a suspect, and if there's anything that love-a-holic Lance can't abide, then it's losing his soul mate du jour.  So Jaine dusts off her detective hat and does some digging.  That is, between emails from her wacky parents, hijinks-jammed job interviews, and entertainingly awful dates, all while fueling herself with another Big Mac and/or buttered bagel.  Jaine's sleuthing -- and life -- make for the most deliciously cringeworthy in the cozy genre.  There's no PI I adore more.

Luckily, I can enjoy Jaine's antics for capers to come.  Because despite her dangerous pass time -- and diet -- she has more lives than Prozac.   

Tuesday, January 7, 2025

From Yesterday to Today: A Very Y2K Birthday

Top: Current Mood, Dolls Kill




Shoes: Jessica Simpson, DSW



Bag: Delia's, Dolls Kill

Skirt: Tinseltown, Macy's

This Monday, my birthday, blew by in a blur of snow and a rash-induced doc's visit for Char Bar.  But that was okay because I had the good fortune to celebrate with my whole family on Saturday.  Also, because a handy dandy cream made that pesky rash go away.  

Anyway, although I turned 43, in one way it felt like 18.  I'm of course referring to the Y2K vibe of my outfit.  It certainly couldn't be anything else, given that some days I feel a hundred! 🤣  

I've had the top, which is Current Mood from Dolls Kill, for a few years, and the bright pop art graphics and fitted mesh remind me of tops I wore my last year of high school.  However, I snagged the skirt which, in my opinion, has even more of that '90s-meets-aughts-space-age feel, just this year from Macy's for -- wait for it -- $6.76.  I liked it so much that I ordered two more, one in black and one in gold.  I love when old trends come back again.  

Just like I love that the older I get, the younger -- and trendier -- I want to dress. 😏🎂