Thursday, August 29, 2024

Blast from the Past: The Key to Creativity

When pianist Emily Solomon breaks her wrist, her career seems over before it's begun.  But that was more than a decade ago, when Emily was young and foolish and let her passion for music and bandmate Rob rule her life.  Or so she tells herself as a now-respectable therapist and doctor's wife dedicated to helping others.  Then something happens to threaten the new life she's so carefully curated, forcing her to ask herself if it's more painful to hold on to the past or a facade of perfection.

That's the gist of Jill Santopolo's Everything After.  Steeped in the same strong emotions that make The Light We Lost so moving, this unforgettable story hinges on excerpts from Emily's college journal.  No-holds-barred and heartbreaking, this deeply personal narrative invites us to share Emily's dreams as well as her despair when they begin to crumble.  Through it, we come to understand Emily's polar opposite present -- and the chink that spreads in her well-earned armor when the ghosts of her old life come back to haunt her.

Poignant and bittersweet, Everything After examines what it means to be honest, both with ourselves and the people we love.  

Because we can't begin to know where we're going until we face the music of where we've been.   

Wednesday, August 28, 2024

Out the Door With What I Wore: Nine West Resort Report

Flower clips: Capelli: ULTA

Bag: The Shoppes at the Asbury; Shoes: Chinese Laundry, Zulily

Dress: Nine West, Kohl's

Skirt: Wallflower, Marshalls; Shoes: Katy Perry Collection, Amazon

Bag: Dolls Kill

Top: Nine West, Kohl's

Skirt: So, Kohl's; Shoes: Rocket Dog, Marshalls

Bag: So, Kohl's; Bag charm: LC Lauren Conrad, Kohl's

Top: Nine West, Kohl's

Sunglasses: Nordstrom Rack

I finally convinced the husband to -- safely, carefully, lovingly -- place Charlotte in the pack n' play to take these blink-and-you'll-miss-them porch pics.  She was fine, it was fine, and I learned a lesson about not obsessing over the perfect shot.  Gone are the days when I'd insist that the husband retake this or that pic because of bad lighting, bad hair, or, yes, my sometimes bad attitude.  Now I make my peace with a couple of snaps and move on.

See?  Baby girl and I are both growing up.        

Anyway, this is what I wore to the husband's birthday dinner, Labcorp (diabetes has left the building!), and my first post-baby trip to Kohl's, Michaels, and Target.  I was excited to break out my new Nine West clothes.  Bold and tropical, they remind me of things that you'd wear on vacation.

Or that I'd wear to Target. 🌺🌴

Thursday, August 22, 2024

Cash Crash: Flash in the Pan and Clash in the Clan

"What would you do if you won the lottery?" is a question we've all asked ourselves.  And that's the what-if that Elyssa Friedland explores in her latest novel, Jackpot Summer.  In the wake of mourning their mother, three of the four Jacobson siblings play the Powerball and win.  Loaded lawyer Matthew opted out (his wife, also a lawyer, quipped that the lottery is a tax on stupid people), setting the stage for some serious drama.  Because although stay-at-home-mom Laura, art teacher Sophie, and tech support freelancer Noah struggled before they hit it big, the windfall means that their troubles are only beginning.

With a focus on family and the virtues of middle class life, Jackpot Summer is a light-hearted but pointed reminder to count your blessings as well as your pennies.

Tuesday, August 20, 2024

More Than the Moon, a Dream Come True June: A Baby to Read and Bead With

Once in a Blue and Yellow Moon Necklace


Some Flair Over the Rainbow Necklace

There's something old-timey and simple about crafting while your baby sleeps.  This is also true of reading while your baby sleeps, although that's less noteworthy because I do it every day.  Anyway, I found it comforting to watch Char Bar's little belly rise and fall as I strung this pair of sky-themed necklaces, the muted TV glowing like candlelight and the crickets singing outside the window.  What's more, working on borrowed time (and I do mean borrowed, as I paused while preparing this very post to change a poopy diaper) seemed to sharpen me.  I was more focused and less likely to doubt myself, as I sometimes did with unlimited craft time.  As a result, I was really happy with how these necklaces turned out and look forward to, at some point, making more.

Once in a blue moon, I break out the beads.  Because a little downtime is what every mom needs. 💙🌜

Wednesday, August 14, 2024

Do Not Disturb, Kick Crime to the Curb: All's Well That Ends Well in the Gran Scheme of Things


For our latest book club pick, my sister chose Nita Prose's The Mystery Guest.  It's the follow-up to Prose's The Maid, the heartbreaking yet heartwarming story of an unusual maid who must dust her way out of a murder accusation.  You may recall that I enjoyed The Maid but sometimes found it painful to read.  So I wasn't sure what to expect from The Mystery Guest.

This time, the murder victim is mystery author J. D. Grimthorpe.  Once again, Molly is a suspect -- as is her protégé, the equally awkward Lily.  Also as before, Molly relies on her late Gran's wit and wisdom to make her way out of the mess.  Indeed, Prose alternates between the present and the past, delving deeper into Molly's childhood to help us understand who she is.  And although there are more than a few sad memories, I wasn't as disturbed as I was when reading the first book.  I think it's because I feel that these details, disconcerting though they may be, ultimately lead to light instead of darkness.  

That said, the plot has some intriguing twists, the least significant of which is whodunit.  Because as with The Maid, the point of The Mystery Guest isn't to solve the murder so much as it is to chart Molly's growth.  As Gran (and John Lennon) always said:  

"Everything will be okay in the end.  If it's not okay, it's not the end." 

And it's certainly not the end for Molly.  Because Prose has at least two more maid books coming out. 😏

Saturday, August 10, 2024

Style One (Baby) Step at a Time: He Lets Me Pose by the Stairs, an Exercise That Shows He Cares

Skirt: Indigo Rein, Macy's; Sandals: So, Kohl's

Bag: Amazon; Bracelet: Betsey Johnson

Top: INC, Macy's

Bag: So, Kohl's; Scrunchie: Wild Fable, Target

Sandals: INC, Macy's

Dress: Monteau, Marshalls

Skirt: So, Kohl's

All jewelry: Simply Vera, Kohl's

Top: Violet & Claire, Marshalls

Sandals: Chinese Laundry, JCPenney; Bag: Delia's

Dress: Modcloth; Bag: Betsey Johnson, Amazon

Long necklace: Kohl's; Short necklace: Macy's; Bracelets: Target

When searching for a tune with a symbolic stairstep tie-in, I should've maybe gone with one that at least has stairs or steps in the title, such as "Stairway to Heaven" or even New Kids On the Block's "Step by Step."  But that wouldn't have been as fun -- or as accurate -- as Blink-182's "All the Small Things":

"She left me roses by the stairs/Surprises let me know she cares."  

Yes, the husband leaves me roses by the stairs.  If leaving roses by the stairs means taking the odd fit pic of me upon request, always in front of the staircase so as not to abandon our child while I vogue in front of a tree.  So when I dress for a now-rare-leaving-the-house event, I make it count and ask the husband to document it.  And although this may seem like an, ahem, "small thing," it isn't.  Because even when consumed by parenthood, it's important to honor the people we've always been.  

Which is my way of saying that roses are nice, but when it comes to romance, it's poses over posies. 😏📸🌹

Sunday, August 4, 2024

Sex Equals Death: The Mystery of Romance and the Romance of Mystery

I was recently reading a post on The Big Hair Diaries about the romance of books and reading -- in other words, the magic of imagination and transportation that comes from losing yourself in a story.  And that got me thinking about my two favorite genres: romance and mystery.  Or, more specifically, romcoms and cozies.  Sure, these gentler subgenres are softened by comedy.  But they still center around sex and violence.  Which makes me wonder how such turmoil can be comforting, not just to me, but to countless readers.  Yet maybe it's not the turmoil that's soothing.  Maybe it's the resolution of the turmoil, and with it, the reaffirmation of love and life.  

Or maybe there's no deep explanation at all.  Maybe people are just animals.

Either way, when I find a romance with mystery or a mystery with romance, I know I've hit the genre jackpot.  Which is the case with most of the books I read, including Christina Lauren's Dating You/Hating You and Lee Hollis's Death of a Bacon Heiress.  

Because office romance burns hotter when sparked by a scheme, and finding out whodunit is more fun with flirtation.